Thursday, July 02, 2009 ♥
affection and love showed @ 11:07 PM.
I don't really understand why there are some people's treatment towards others are so fake? Why can't they just be truth towards themselves? They should know that they are fake towards someone but why they still do it? If they are fake, it also mean that they are lying towards themselves.. If you don't like someone to be around you then just tell the truth.. Why must you use a lot of reasons just to cover that? In fact, it does not work at all.. People can see it...
In this world there are two types of friends. One is really true friends and another one is fake friends.. True friends will always be there for you. While for fake friends, they find you because they want something from you... Personally, i think its better to find friends that truth and straight forward towards you even though sometimes it might hurt you how they delivered the message because they are the people who can correct your mistakes, be truth and accept whoever you are... While fake friends, they only want to be around you because they want something from you.. They try to be fake so that they get close with you and get the things they want and after that, they left...
Personally i think if we want other people to change, we should change ourselves first... Introspect yourselves first then you can expect others to change.. I agree that people have their negative points but they also should understand other people negative points. Then they can worked well but if you don't understand the people and you expect them to change, then that does not improve anything in your friendship especially relationship...
Lastly, how would you feel when someone doesn't invite you for dinner while the rest of your friends are there? Furthermore, you don't even know that they are having dinner.. When you call one of your friends, he or she told you that they are having dinner or just finished having dinner... After that, one of your friends that was having dinner asked you why you did not go? Personally, i will feel hurt even you do not expect them to invite you... Especially, the reason they did not invite you because they forgot about it..
I think its better to be patient and someday you will receive more... :D
